How does cancer treatment affect sexuality and intimacy?
A common concern during your cancer journey is how the disease and treatment will impact your current or future relationships. A diagnosis of cancer may affect you in many ways, including your sexuality.
Sexuality can encompass physical, psychological, social, emotional and spiritual factors. It includes your self-image, body image, reproductive ability, emotional intimacy, sensual feelings and sexual functioning.
What causes sexual dysfunction during cancer treatment?
The impact of cancer affects sexuality in a number of ways. Sexuality-related concerns may arise from the physical aspects of disease or treatment, as well as from emotional aspects. Anger, guilt, or worry about illness and survival, treatment or finances may also affect sexuality.
Disease processes and treatment effects can lead to biological or physical changes in sexual functioning
Treatment effects and symptoms may impact sexual desire and feelings of desirability
Your mood will affect how you relate to others and how your feel about your body
The way you communicate and relate to others may be challenged upon a cancer diagnosis
What are the signs and symptoms of sexual dysfunction?
The perception of sexual dysfunction is very individual and comes down to what is abnormal for you. Common physical effects for women include vaginal dryness and pain during intercourse. Men may experience erectile dysfunction. There are also other concerns which may impact on your sexuality:
Altered sensation and response
Changes in ability to reach orgasm
Fear
Depression and anxiety
Loss of intimacy
Changes to the quality of relationships
Communication challenges
Partners’ concern and uncertainty
How can sexual dysfunction be prevented or managed?
Sexuality and intimacy are often overlooked topics of discussion when you are first diagnosed with cancer. Initially, this may not be a priority for you. If you haven’t received any information from your care team, it’s not because sexuality and intimacy aren’t important. This can be a difficult topic to discuss or bring up with your doctor or nurse – particularly in a busy, open environment. Please feel free, if comfortable, to discuss any concerns you may have regarding sexuality issues with your care team. If they are unable to provide sufficient answers for you, you may be referred to more experienced practitioners.
There are many things that can be done to improve your sexual function. Lubricants and moisturisers are recommended to alleviate vaginal dryness and pain. Pelvic floor muscle training may improve sexual pain, arousal, lubrication, orgasm and satisfaction. Erectile dysfunction can be managed through risk factor modification (e.g. smoking cessation, weight loss, avoiding alcohol), medication and therapy. Counselling and/or couples therapy may also be helpful.
Your care team can provide you with reputable websites and resources for further information.
Every patient is different, please discuss your own personal situation with your treating doctor of Icon care team.
Common side effects from chemotherapy
Sexual dysfunction
Anaemia Appetite and taste changes Bleeding and low platelets (thrombocytopenia) Constipation Diarrhoea Feeling emotional Flu-like symptoms Hair loss Hand foot syndrome Infection Infertility Lymphoedema Mouth sores or ulcers Nausea and vomiting Peripheral neuropathy Skin and nail changesReady to discuss your care?
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